Tomorrow morning (bright and early) I take my boys to daycare for the very first time. I know a ton of mothers go through this, but it is a first for me. When my first born came into this world I was already working. Five short weeks and I returned to work, but I had my lovely mother living with me who was able to take care of my baby boy. Although it was hard leaving him, I knew he was in great, if not better, hands. When he was 5 months old my mother moved away and I had to take him to daycare. I had already been leaving him every day to go to work and that day was still so hard for me. I remember crying all the way to work. He was only there for 6 months before my husband got new orders and I had to quit my job and move across the country. Skip ahead over 4 years later and add another precious boy. I have not worked for 2 years. I have spent these last wonderful years with my boys every single day. Unfortunately, life happened. I am now a single mother who must work to support her boys and herself. I am so grateful to get a full time job, but this also means full time daycare. I know the boys will be okay, it is me who might not be. I have grown so attached to these two. I don’t want it to be the end of our playdates during the week. I don’t want to end our story times at the bookstore. I knew eventually this day would come, but I thought they would be in school. I thought I would be able to work part time and still pick them up from after. Life has not turned out how I planned and this day has come too quickly. I squeezed them both so tight before bed tonight, trying not to let them see my tears. I am already a very sensitive person that cries at the drop of a hat. I wonder if I should wait until I drop them off to do my make-up?
I can’t wait for this to become easier. The hard pit in my stomach needs to ease. I know this new beginning will bring them new friends and teach them more than I can at home. I am just ready for next week already, when we will all be a little bit more comfortable in our new routine. I just pray they don’t get sick! (knock on wood)